Star Power Affirmation #5: “What they did to me then does not define who I am today. I hereby reclaim my power.”

July 10, 2016 Barbara Niven Star Power Affirmations 0 comments

This statement is a profound Aha moment, and a turning point, for anyone who’s ever been a victim.

My character Peggy Beldon has been victimized for over 20 years, and it’s the only secret she’s ever kept from her husband, Bob. Why would she keep it from him? I think it’s because she wanted to protect him and his sobriety, and because she was so ashamed. Victims often feel they are to blame, so they stuff it down and hide their disgrace. But in tonight’s Season finale, Peggy will finally take her power back, face her bully, and say enough is enough! Watch and cheer with her as she literally fights back and kicks him to the curb!

I’m proud that Cedar Cove TV and Hallmark Channel USA are taking on the issue of Bullying this season. The more awareness we bring, the more empowered victims will become as they realize they are not alone.

Are you being bullied? If so, I first want to say I am so very sorry. You do not deserve it. You are special and wonderful, but there are people out there who only feel good when they put others down. If it’s happening to you either in person or by Cyberbullying, you probably feel isolated, alone and ashamed – even though it’s not your fault.

But this can be your Aha moment and turning point! I want you to know that there is hope, and as Peggy says in tonight’s show, the law is on your side. What the bullies are doing to you does not define you – YOU do. So it is time to take your power back! Speak up and tell someone, and if that first person can’t get you the help you need, tell someone else or call a hotline. You are not alone, and you are worth it! There are so many people who care about you and are waiting for you to speak up. Please do it right now!

Here are some links to find information and resources:

For more info on how to recognize the signs of bullying and specific ways to get help, check out http://www.stopbullying.gov/get-help-now

If you or someone you know are being bullied, you can anonymously contact the Cyberbully Hotline at: http://www.cyberbullyhotline.com

Please share this post and these resources with others too. Together, we can stop Bullying.

Much Love, Light and Empowerment…
Barbara

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